Ep. 58: What To Do When You Can't Have Sex
Despite all of the things happening in the world, there is still pleasure and the ability to listen in and learn how to get more pleasure. Obviously, we are in unique times in the world. So I really want to take this time to talk about how and what can we do to bring pleasure into our life if sex is off the table. Just because sex isn’t an option, we have to make sure that we aren’t disconnecting from ourselves and our sexuality. In this episode, I share the importance of redefining sex and foreplay, what it means to self-pleasure, and other ways to play and prioritize pleasure.
I also want to let you know that I am doing a free masterclass, 3 Steps to Mindblowing Sex. In this class, I teach you the top 3 things you can focus on that will help you have amazing sex. Sometimes it can feel so complicated to have great sex, so I want to share with you the foundations of what it takes. This masterclass is for you if you’re not having sex, or if you’re having sex and want to take it to the next level. This is for all of you.
Topics in this episodeWe can all take time for pleasure
The cultural definition of sex
Give yourself permission to expand your mind
Taking sex off the table could actually be way more fun.
Having the mindset that fun is a possibility
Start with the mind. Let it be open to pleasure and let it be curious.
What do I need to think and believe that’s going to create a sense of playfulness and curiosity?
Self-pleasure vs masturbation
It’s been my absolute pleasure to share this episode with you. I hope it allows you to expand your mind that whether or not sex is on the table, pleasure is possible for you. Sometimes it may be more fun when we give ourselves permission to be creative in a different way.
Author
Danielle Savory
Sex Coach
Danielle Savory is a Master Coach to high-achieving women ready to have better sex lives.
