How TANGLED Works

The next cohort starts March 12th, 2023

Early registration enrollment (eligible for fabulous bonus) February 26 - March 1

Regular enrollment March 2 - March 12

All calls will be on Thursdays. You may choose between a 9:15 am PST or 4:00 pm PST call time. 

The calls are weekly for 75min. 

There are a total of 12 calls and all of the calls are recorded and available for replay.

Yes.  All live calls are recorded and made available to you within 24-48 hours of the live call time.

The bulk of this program is based on the calls themselves and I strongly recommend making the time to attend LIVE.

That being said if you commit to watching the replays, coaching yourself and utilizing the Sex Assessment feature you will be able to get incredible results.

There have been a few who have joined knowing they couldn't attend and still have wonderful results. I interviewed one of these women from a previous cohort in this podcast if you'd like to check it out.

If you do choose to join knowing you won't be able to attend, just make sure to plan for success! 

Whatever you choose is perfect - you know what is best for you.

I coach in a way that is trauma-informed. Additionally, you will learn tools to help support you in your healing journey. I would also say that it is important to understand where you are at on your own healing journey - some they are at the very beginning and some they have done some work and are ready to move beyond the healing and step into the body in a safe and pleasurable way. The class won’t focus on trauma exclusively and that might be what you need first before joining the group. Depending on the nature and severity of your trauma I would recommend having worked with a therapist or trauma specialist if needed first, like if it feels “red hot” to touch then this might be the best first step with you before joining the program. If you have more questions about your unique situation please email me directly at [email protected] and I am happy to talk it through with you.

I 100% believe in the power of the container and see the community aspect as main feature of this program. Will you get nervous? Absolutely! And that is OK.

Getting coached and sharing has the potential to be a huge element in your growth. It likely will make you sweat at times, but it is also truly liberating and empowering.

Here's what women from past cohorts have had to say about sharing this journey with a community of women:

• I've never done anything like it before and cannot believe the power of being in a room together with so many other women. Even when the issue being discussed did not pertain to me, I learned from it and added it to my thinking, and it did help me amplify my sexual experience.
• It was so helpful. Even though I had to watch some of the calls as recordings, I felt normal. I felt heard. It was amazing how each of the women's experiences spoke to me and helped me on my journey.
• I loved the group experience. It was such a powerful way to learn from others, face vulnerability, be held, be seen and give support through to others through your growth. I loved it.
• LOVED IT!! I was inspired and educated by listening to the stories of the other women.
• This was helpful for 2 reasons: 1) When other ladies were sharing their experiences, it helped me stay motivated to continue the work. 2)Sometimes someone would bring up a question that I hadn't even thought of, but applied to me.
• Sharing this experience with others was so supportive! Hearing others share their journey was helpful expecially when someone else would share something that connected for me too. It was comforting to know you aren't the only one to have some of these experiences.
• It was so interesting for me to see that there are so many other women out there with similar types of thoughts in their brain as I have in mine. It helped to normalize what I’ve experienced and also to see that just because this is what I’ve struggled with up until now, doesn’t mean that I will always struggle with it.
• It was incredible. The group was so much better for me than 1 to 1 coaching b/c other women have the same problems as me it turns out, which was such a relief. And I learned so much about myself by seeing the other women be coached.
• It was great and useful to see that we have all the same kinds of issues finally.
• Just the vulnerability and therefore safety and reassurance that it's all normal.
• I LOVED the group setting. First off, the women were amazing and I learned so much from them. I've gotten so used to my current situation that sometimes I can't see where my issues are coming from. When the other women would share things that were difficult for them it would spark an aha moment for me, and I loved that. I was really intimidated at first with number of coaches in the class because I worried I'd be the only one who didn't know what they were doing. In the end it was fine.
• I loved learning that I was not the only one. That alone shifted me from the feeling of “being broke” to a feeling of wholeness.
• I had shifts in every area of the program from just buying, watching the videos and and the group coaching. One that made a really big impact on me though was when someone else was getting coached on how she was seeing pleasure as something she was doing for her partner. I remember thinking, "that sounds terrible! and i'm doing the exact same thing." I realized how much pleasure I can have from just how i approach our physical relationship...but because I listened to someone else share.  

Absolutely.

That being said, this program is heavily focused on partnered sex. 

Since you do have full access to the Undressed course (which is all about YOU) you have the opportunity to utilize the content in their and bring your questions and coaching to the live calls.

Your relationship with yourself - how you view yourself and your body - is the most important relationship of all, partnered or not. And many women have found that what they have learned in this program has helped them focus on themselves first and the transformation has served them greatly when they did embark on new relationships.

This program is designed for the individual not for couples. Though partnered sex is the focus of the program the coaching container is only for one person in a partnership. 

Some participants have enjoyed discussing what they are learning, trying out some of the exercises together and even watching some of the pre-recorded video lessons with their partner. But what you share is up to you.

NONE of the replays or the live coaching calls may ever be shared with anyone outside of the program, your partner included.

Let's hear from these women in their own words:

• I wanted to embrace my sexuality as the beautiful part of me I know it was meant to be.
• Work-life balance, my life was disappearing in my biz. Shame asking for what I wanted in the bedroom.
• I was always stuck in my head. Feeling like I was doing it wrong. Blaming my husband. Frustrated that I didn't have the "desire" I once had. I wanted to to want sex. I didn't want it to feel like a chore anymore.
• I had a few reasons for joining. I wanted to explore what a pleasurable life for me would look like. I spent my whole life thinking about, performing for everyone else. I didn't know what it was like to be in charge of my own pleasure without shame and fear still being present.
• After years of painful sex due to early menopause, I'd given up. My husband I hadn't had intercourse in years, and no regular intimacy in nearly a decade. I'd tried MANY things before: sex therapy, couples therapy, individual therapy, EMDR.
• My husband told he had 'given up' on trying to have sex with me because he was feeling rejected a lot. So I didn't want that for my marriage. I wanted a strong connected marriage.
• I was stuck in a cycle of having low desire and then having severe guilt for my lower desire (which lowered my desire even more). My boyfriend has a high desire level, and I have always shamed myself and told myself I'm not good enough for him because of it.
• When I joined I was wanting to have more "desire" for sex. I knew it was so much of my thoughts and strict belief system that got in my way. I enjoy sex once I am in the middle of it, and actually have good sex but I wanted to change my thought process to see it as something for me, not just my husband.
• I was already having great sex with my partner! However, I wanted to create more pleasure in my life, I wanted to learn more about self pleasure in particular and build a better relationship with my body. I also had a past incident that I had shoved to the side for a decade and I wanted to get control over it.
• I joined to reconnect to my inner turned-on woman who felt lost in the midst of marital drama. I also joined to get to a more neutral place within said marriage to determine whether to stay or go.
• I have to admit, I really joined the program so I could give my husband the sexual gifts that I felt he deserved. I have always had a tough time feeling "sexy", initiating sex, and voicing my desires. I wanted to be the "full package" for my husband. What I learned is that if I focus on MY pleasure, I become all those things for my husband.
• My boyfriend and I were not having as much sex anymore. I was struggling on how to communicate what I liked, wanted, enjoyed in the bedroom. I wanted to learn how to overcome this block. I also lost desire for sex and hardly wanted or had sex which really hurt my boyfriend which then hurt me as well. I wanted to learn how to get my desire back.
• I had a realization that I was having sex with husband because he wanted to and I was doing it to appease him. I wanted to like having sex FOR ME and I wanted to strengthen our marriage through looking forward to being with my husband and having better sex. I also wanted to love my body and not have any insecurities about sex and my body.
• I have always been “meh” about sex, but saw how important it was to my husband. I was curious if I could enjoy it, and what affect that would have on the rest of my life.
• My relationship with sex at this stage in life was lacking and I refused to believe I was going to face the next half of my life with the same. I wanted to stare it straight in the face and say - I see you, I value you, let's work together and make this next life chapter technicolor. What if I have better sex in my 40s, 50s, 60s+ than as a younger woman?
• Sex is always something that I’ve had an insecurity about- an area that I’ve felt broken in. I’ve thought that mine isn’t as good as it should be or that I’m not good enough in bed. And with that, I’ve noticed how much I hold myself back - I know that it could be so much better if I just let go
• I was frustrated with the lack of sex and lack of pleasure in my life. Every other aspect of my life is amazing and I thought it was okay to have this one missing piece of being a sexually pleasured and embodied woman. Until the pain of staying the same outgrew the pain of growing. And then I found Danielle!
• I set out to get more pleasure. I was hesitant to invest time and money in myself for pleasure, but thought "best case scenario, it's worth it to be working out new muscles: my genitals, my brain and my heart". I wanted to be able to feel- actually feel emotions in my physical body. I wanted to experience the rollercoaster of all the descriptive emotion-words I knew. I wanted to be the person who knew the answer when asked what I wanted during sex. I wanted to be emboldened and unapologetic online and offline. I was doing this for me.
• I was frustrated with not enjoying sex and not being eager to be in the bedroom with my husband. I resisted feeling sexual, being sexual, owning my who I was created to be and just being overall afraid of sex and the possibility of intense pleasure.
• I wanted to lean into the woman I'm becoming even more and wanted the group experience! Also just really wanted to work with Danielle longer. {From someone who worked with Danielle 1:1 prior to the group experience.)
• During the years my husband was in med school we both put our sexual pleasure on the back burner. When med school was over we realized things needed to change but weirdly we didn't know how to do that. I had put up barriers to sex that I didn't even know I had. I wanted to ignite more sexual desire to create a more vibrant sex life with my husband.
• I had just completed 6 months of private coaching with Danielle. I absolutely LOVED working with her and I wasn't ready to stop doing all the work that I had done on myself. I felt that being in a group setting, I would be able to see that I wasn't alone and that other women were probably having the same feelings that I was and thought that would be helpful.

Here's what women from past cohorts have had to say about immediate benefits or shifts they noticed:

• I HAD SEX WITH MY HUSBAND, three weeks in a row, for the first time in at least three years. But we haven't had sex this consistently in nearly a decade. And now I can't wait for the next time. I think about sex more, I am having sex and more sex than I have had in years, and it's fantastic.
• More sex, more initiating it, being able to say 'not now', bigger orgasms, seeing sex as FOR me when i'm tired as a release or comfort.
• I am much more able to detach from and observe my thoughts than ever before. This really helps me to manage my stress levels and not react so much to the negative thoughts about myself and sex. I started doing this program because I wanted to "get better" for my partner, but I learned that it's possible to get to a place where I want to do this for myself. Relatedly, I also learned it's possible to want sex because it's pleasurable for ME, not just because I tell myself I have to for my partner.
• I started looking at my body differently in the mirror. I really felt in love with my body for the first time.
• Self pleasure Saturdays, every Saturday... And not just touching myself, but starting my day with a long bath, long walks, slowing down, I even have reduced my working hours to 30 hours a week, I feel more patient with myself and accepting everything in my past.
• I create desire - I'm in charge of it! Not judging the distracting thoughts that pop up when being intimate - seeing the thought and releasing it. There is nothing wrong with how long it takes me to get to desire. There is no right or wrong.
• I thought about sex a lot more and that in turn created more desire, which led to more sex. This course was a catalyst for many great discussions with my husband too!
• I'm more present for sex for sure and feeling less self-pressure to be immediately "on." I am enjoying feeling pleasure both on my own and with my husband more fully. He never pressured me for sex but I would pressure myself and asking for sexy time feels empowering.
• I reconnected with my body, I released shame, I fell in love with myself and my body for the first time.
• Had more sex, sex feels better, finding more love and connection with myself and my husband.
• More presence in sex- able to just breathe into it and let those thoughts go. More comfortable in my body, especially with these parts of me. Ability to truly feel and process my emotions- that body awareness. Better able to connect and communicate with my husband. Knowing that I am committed to doing this work for the rest of my life. Knowing that I’m not broken.
• I view sex as beautiful and it's purpose is for pleasure and connection, in the past it was a duty and not enjoyable. Self pleasure was full of shame for me before, now it is a way for me to connect with myself and my body. I am so excited for sex with a partner, in the past my relationship felt like we were both voiceless puppets going through the motions. In my next relationship I am excited to talk about sex and what I want and need and encourage him to share all that he desires too. My relationship with myself has deepened because of the self compassion I learned to have for myself. Awakening desire has brought a whole new dimension and depth to my being. I feel like a different woman, more full of life and color. My writing/creativity has been sparked.
• More present in every aspect of my life. Way more sex. Learning to prioritize pleasure over the to-do list.
• I feel empowered having stepped into a sexy turned on version of myself I'd never experienced before. I'm finding more ways to experience pleasure, not just in the bedroom. I'm dancing again.
• I definitely slowed the fuck down! I took notice of feelings inside my body, I focused on getting more pleasure out of every aspect of like. More presence in and out of the bedroom, more pleasure, more comfortable in my own body.
• Unashamed, more in my power (Danielle, this is sacred. Tears. So good. Everything.) - Closeness with myself, connection with myself, clarity and closeness with the hubs because I like sex more. More empowered and confident in my business.
• Anticipating sex more throughout the day - really allowing myself to think about and look forward to sexy time outside of sexy time - seriously such a gift - less compartmentalized. Keeping sex a priority even when more time / stress in my biz. More presence / ability to be with emotions.
• Releasing shame, taking time for pleasure (like ACTUALLY doing it, bridging that gap finally), more self love which is invaluable.
• I'm making my personal pleasure more of a priority. I'm allowing myself to be turned on during the day without shame or trying the stop it. I'm spending more time in my body instead of my head. I'm not apologizing for my wants in bed anymore. I'm creating a healthier dialogue regarding my body image as well, which allows me to love myself and accept the love from my husband.
• More presence. More thinking about pleasure and infusing that into most of my day, not as an afterthought. More self compassion. More fun. And not rushing or pressuring myself during sex.

If you'd like to hear more personal testimonials about the benefits of participating in this program, check out these podcasts:

• Ep 156: "I Want What She Has" Balancing The Pursuit of Pleasure While Staying Committed to Religious Beliefs
• Ep. 154: Pleasure: A Vital Element To Successful Leadership
• Ep. 92: BETTER Than Better Sex
• Ep. 93: From Blah to BJs, Multi-Orgasms & Juicy Marriages
• Ep. #109: At Home In Her Body
• Ep. #110: Is This As Good As It Gets?!
• Ep. #120: It’s FUN To Work On Your Sex Life
• Ep. #122: How Small Shifts Can Lead To Orgasmic Returns

• The programs are for people who identify as women. 
• All the women who have previously been through this program have been cis-gendered women.
• Materials relating to sexuality are designed to speak to female anatomy and pleasure. 
• You can be single, partnered and/or in an open relationship.
• These programs are appropriate for women partnered with any gender, however please note that Danielle’s own lived experience (which she may refer to in teachings) are all based on a heterosexual relationship. 

Many women who are dedicated to their faith have absolutely loved and greatly benefitted having gone through the program. Coaching is never about telling you what to believe or how to think, instead think of it as an exploration of how certain views have shaped your current experience, what specifically is holding you back from pleasure and what would an incredible sex life look like FOR YOU.

It has also been expressed how going through a sex coaching program that wasn't strictly catered to their religion allowed for so much more growth because of a variety of perspectives and views they had the opportunity to learn.

Take a listen THIS interview that specifically addresses some of these concerns.

In this container we promote a culture of respect, tolerance, and acceptance towards all individuals regardless of their sexual orientation and gender identity. Please note that expression of discrimination, prejudice, exclusion or biases will not be tolerated.

Yes. 

You can pay in full up front or make monthly payments throughout the course of the program.

Use THIS link to go to payment plan.

For program-specific questions, please email [email protected]

For questions more personal or intimate in nature that you want to discuss specifically with Danielle, please email her directly at [email protected].