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We were socialized to focus our care taking to be outside of us. For others to benefit from. Which is lovely AND you need that same attention from you.
I will always argue that taking care of OTHERS is easier than taking care of yourself, not because the task itself is hard, but because of our resistance to it.
Let’s talk about how and why its so important for us to be courageously selfish and how that can help us in our pleasured life.
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Valentine’s Day might be over, but the conversation about love and relationships continues on "It's My Pleasure." In this episode, we dive deep into the intricacies of relationship dynamics, shedding light on thought patterns and emotional dynamics that can subtly impact our connections over time.
**Codependent Thinking and Emotional Outsourcing:**
Unpack the long-term effects of codependent thinking and emotional outsourcing on relationships. Discover how the quest for initial safety and validation can evolve into unexpected pressures.
**Attachment Styles Unveiled:**
Explore the world of attachment styles and how our experiences with caregivers during childhood unconsciously shape our adult relationships. Gain insights into how recognizing these patterns can foster healthier connections.
**Unseen Emotional Labor:**
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Valentine’s Day, hmmmm, there is so much to say about this commercialized holiday. And yet, love it or hate it, it still comes around each and every year.
But here on “It’s My Pleasure” we are all about infusing your life with more of the stuff that lights you up and turns you on.
Valentine’s Day can be FUN, why not let yourself receive all the love and juicy pleasure you are wired for?!
But it is time we do it differently - not as a check, DONE - but because you want to feel alive in your body, present for the relationships that matter and turned on in your life.
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How can we become more joyful with using the embodiment of pleasure? In this episode I share a clip from a recent discussion inside the Pleasure-Centered Coach Training I offer where we are discussing the importance of “pleasure” vs joy and how that one degree shift towards pleasure can make all the difference in the world.
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Your sex life changes after kids, this is simply a fact. But usually when we talk about it, it is with such a Debbie Downer tone. Just because your life looks different (including the sexy bits) after kids, doesn’t mean that is a bad thing. In fact, in can be incredible, I promise.
Listen in to this special episode, where my colleague and host of The Ambitious and Balanced Working Moms podcast interviews me on all the ways things shift once we have kids and how we can insure our pleasure and intimacy are still a top priority.
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Hey welcome back to another mini-episode, where I give you some quick actionable tips or food for thought on a topic.
Today's discussion is a quick list of somethings that you can do right now to increase intimacy with your partner. The truth is, long term partnerships, really any partnership, take effort and attention. And if you don’t water that intimacy plant it will wither and die. But like you, I also have a lot going on. With our busy schedules feeling like we have to do “one more thing” can feel daunting. And it isn’t like you don’t want to help in the intimacy department, but where do you even start?
I got you. This episode will cover 6 easy and tangible ways you can boost your intimacy with your lover right now.
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Dr. Shyama was such a pleasure to have on the podcast this week. As a practicing gynecologist and certified menopause specialist, she breaks down some of the changes we may see in perimenopause and menopause and how this impacts our sexual response.
Dr. Shyama is so well versed on this topic, and as a mother and wife herself she understands how challenging it can be to juggle it all and still find time for pleasure. Because of the lack of education she even got in her medical training when it came to hormones, female pleasure and sexual response, it is her mission to help more people understand what they can do to experience more pleasure and ease during all seasons of life.
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New year and a time that so many of us are setting intentions. What I love to observe about this time is about how much of the narrative is about doing MORE. But when it comes to sex and intimacy goals, for most of us it requires us to do less.
To do less to reset our nervous system. To do less so that we can open to receive. Do less so that we aren’t overwhelmed, overtired and overstretched so that we can experience the oodles of pleasure that our bodies are wired for.
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Learning how to ask for what you want is essential to experiencing more pleasure and also creating more desire.
Whether it is asking to try a new position, more time to transition from ‘work’ to ‘home’ or asking for help so your mind is racing with all to-do it is a skill we all need as pleasured and turned on women
Please enjoy this short and to the point episode with all the how-tos
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Listen, sex shouldn’t hurt. Period. But the truth is sex hurts for many women and is uncomfortable for so many more. In this episode I will share with you six ways to help make sex more pleasurable.
Please note that this episode is NOT to replace medical care and if you are experiencing pain, I highly recommend you speak to your OBGYN and see a pelvic floor therapist.
What is shared in this episode has also helped many of my clients, myself included, dramatically reduce pain and I hope in the least, it will allow you to start relating to your pain in a different way.
Also don’t forget to enter the podcast giveaway - where everyone will receive a guided meditation and sexy playlist to help facilitate that turned on woman mood. Plus be entered for a chance for private coaching and a gift card for some sensuous gifts.
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